G Spot Stimulation
My friend Alex May is heading to Norway soon to do a two-day seminar on sexual mastery in Oslo. He has also agreed to share some of his simple tips on sex that you can apply to your lovelife IMMEDIATELY after reading them in a few articles here on my blog. In this article, he shares a few tips on how to improve your general skills in bed. Interested in learning more and able to travel to Oslo on the 29th and 30th of May? (The date had to be altered because of the volcano on Iceland that is killing all airtravel in the Nordic countries) Check out this site and come join us!
Today, we look at the wonderful and mythical g-spot:
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First, how will you benefit from this article on G spot stimulation? In a few minutes, you will know WHAT actually is the G spot, WHERE to find it and HOW to bring your woman to an incredible G spot orgasm.
Very few women actually know that they have G spots. Even those who DO KNOW that G spot exists – often doubt if THEY have it. The secret here lays in the following 2 facts.
FACT #1. The G spot area becomes engorged, sensitive and can lead to an orgasm only if/when your woman is sexually aroused for a sufficiently LONG time.
It means for more than ONE HOUR for many women. If you are a good lover – this is approximately the time you take for a good foreplay, right?
If you did not know that any good foreplay takes at least this long – say “a-ha!” and make a HUGE mental note.
FACT #2. By many women, you will have to “awaken” the G spot area. What does it mean? The spot requires long and repetitive stimulation by a good (and patient!) lover. It may take a few days/weeks/months before her G spot finally “awakens” to all its miraculous powers.
It definitely will happen. It just may take a bit longer for some girls.
WHERE IS IT?
This is an area situated on the front wall of the vagina. Take a good look at the picture below.
Skene’s glands are also called Paraurethral, which in turn simply means “around/near urethra.” They may vary in size and quantity from woman to woman.
Nevertheless, ALL women have them and (this is GOOD NEWS!) it means that ALL women can experience G-spot orgasm and eventually also learn an amazing thing called female ejaculation (aka squirting orgasm).
VALUABLE TIPS ON THE G SPOT STIMULATION
- Communicate. Ask your woman to tell you whether you are doing things too slow, too strong, or too rough. Remember, communication is the key here.
Remember also, what means “good” G spot stimulation for one woman often means “nothing special” for another. Never rest on your laurels. Every woman is unique. Pay close attention to reactions and calibrate accordingly.
- Use the pad of your index or middle finger (or two of them combined) for G spot stimulation.
- Always begin using very light pressure. “Very light” means here – not harder than if you would tap on your own bridge of the nose. If the amount of pressure you apply would hurt your own nose bone – reduce it.
- You can always slowly increase the pressure. As a rule, always start light, take your time to build it up, and calibrate accordingly.
STROKING
Use backward and forward motion following the contour of the upper wall of her vagina. Let your finger/s travel no deeper than 4-5 cm (2 inch) from the vagina’ opening. Use “come here” motion and slowly increase the pressure.
CIRCLES
Move the pad of your finger over the G spot in circles. Start with very light circles and slowly increase the pressure. You can begin doing this with middle AND add index fingers combined after a few minutes.
APPLYING PRESSURE
Simply press for a couple of seconds with whole surface of the underside of your finger/s. Release the pressure and after a few seconds repeat it again.
FINGERING
Slide your fingers in and out of her vagina the same way you use when you are fingering her.
However, pay attention to the angle your fingers enter vagina. The angle must be exactly good for hitting her G spot with the pads of your finger/s.
Use moderate pressure for this one. Increase only if her reaction is positive.
Eventually, you can combine all the above techniques with the stimulation of her clitoris. Since woman’s clitoris is THE MOST sensitive part of her body – you will have to learn another thing that all good lovers can do very well. Namely, to apply the “right” amount of stimulation to both areas AT THE SAME TIME…
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Wanna learn more – for free? Take a look at the 4 free videos at www.alexmaysexualmastery.com and this video on youtube: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yCJ0oGygpUA
~ Tj ~
Tj Guttormsen is a Norwegian lifestyle- and attraction coach. He runs 
Well written.
Ooh, you moved the seminar.. Is it boys only?
Yeah, that angry mountain on Iceland forced us to.
It’s open for girls as well (in fact, I think we have one girl signed up already), just keep in mind – it is a seminar on advanced sexuality for people who want to be better lovers for women, so there won’t be much talk about satisfying men
This is so cool! However… There’s also so many women out there who don’t know how to handle the penis. Care to make a guide for them too?
Well, I’m not really an expert on how to handle penises (and neither is Alex as far as I know), so I’m not sure this is the best place to ask for articles like those. All we know are our own presonal preferences..
And of course, if any women want to know about those – they can feel free to ask us
Tj: I already know how to satisfy men, or I got enough guts to figure out how.. So don’t need any seminar on that
But girls on the other hand…Haven’t done that yet 
What’s the price? 
And yeh… I want to know about the sex-guru’s preferences.. Any new tips?
The 2 days (10 hours total) seminar is 3997NOK. And you’re more than welcome to join us
Unfortunately I don’t know Alex Mays preferences, but if you come to the seminar you can ask him yourself
Tj: Oh, that’s over half my salary, no can do then. I’m an apprentice (? lærling..) so not much money to live on at the moment :/ Too bad, would have been fun
Hah, maybe it’s just as well that you don’t know his preferences.. ;P
You make 2000kr a month? Wow.. That sucks.
Oh well, I guess you’ll just have to find someone who can teach you in private
Tj: Nonono, but after paying rent and bills there isn’t much left. (And I spend way to much money on poledance/polefittnes..!) I’ve got around 6000 each month, but every half year I get a raise.. Oh! That’s this month!
Finding someone who can teach me.. that’s a one in a million chance I believe.. :O
Haha, I understand..
Well, in Norway I would guess a ten in a million chance or so, so you should make sure not to miss out if you stumble upon someone with this sort of knowledge
Tj: Ten in a million.. that’s not to bad! Do you think if I start calling trough the phone-catalogue-thing (don’t know the right word..), I’ll find one of the ten? :p
I never let an good opportunity pass me by!
As long as I don’t have an good answer to the question “Why not?”. Have to live while you got the chance 
I’m pretty sure you’ll find one or two if you just read the right blogs and get to know their writers
And I totally agree with your philosophy!
A lot of of the significant elements in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all